{"id":712,"date":"2025-10-24T17:28:52","date_gmt":"2025-10-24T17:28:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/nhatamlyhoc.com\/?p=712"},"modified":"2025-10-24T04:52:16","modified_gmt":"2025-10-24T04:52:16","slug":"self-esteem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/psychologistvietnam.com\/vi\/self-esteem\/","title":{"rendered":"Low self-esteem: Understanding, Causes, and Ways to build confidence"},"content":{"rendered":"<h3 data-start=\"324\" data-end=\"495\">Learn about low self-esteem, its causes, effects on mental health and relationships, and practical strategies to improve confidence and self-worth.<\/h3>\r\n<h2 data-start=\"502\" data-end=\"527\">What is Self-esteem?<\/h2>\r\n<p data-start=\"529\" data-end=\"1029\">Self-esteem is the degree to which a person feels confident, valuable, and worthy of respect. It exists on a spectrum from high to low. <strong data-start=\"665\" data-end=\"685\">High self-esteem<\/strong> is associated with confidence and life satisfaction, while <strong data-start=\"745\" data-end=\"764\">low self-esteem<\/strong> often involves shame, self-doubt, and excessive self-criticism. Low self-esteem is not a formal diagnosis but is closely linked to mental health conditions such as anxiety and depression. Therapy can help individuals improve their self-worth and self-confidence.<\/p>\r\n<h2 data-start=\"1036\" data-end=\"1068\">Nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tr\u1ecdng th\u1ea5p<\/h2>\r\n<p data-start=\"1070\" data-end=\"1223\">People with low self-esteem may constantly compare themselves to others and feel inferior. They often cope with low self-esteem in three main patterns:<\/p>\r\n<ol data-start=\"1225\" data-end=\"1542\">\r\n<li data-start=\"1225\" data-end=\"1348\">\r\n<p data-start=\"1228\" data-end=\"1348\"><strong data-start=\"1228\" data-end=\"1249\">Imposter syndrome<\/strong> \u2013 Hiding insecurities with achievements or false confidence; fear that failure will expose them.<\/p>\r\n<\/li>\r\n<li data-start=\"1349\" data-end=\"1439\">\r\n<p data-start=\"1352\" data-end=\"1439\"><strong data-start=\"1352\" data-end=\"1365\">Rebellion<\/strong> \u2013 Acting out through anger or defiance to mask feelings of inferiority.<\/p>\r\n<\/li>\r\n<li data-start=\"1440\" data-end=\"1542\">\r\n<p data-start=\"1443\" data-end=\"1542\"><strong data-start=\"1443\" data-end=\"1457\">Victimhood<\/strong> \u2013 Feeling helpless and relying on others to solve problems, often using self-pity.<\/p>\r\n<\/li>\r\n<\/ol>\r\n<p data-start=\"1544\" data-end=\"1581\">Common negative self-talk includes:<\/p>\r\n<ul data-start=\"1582\" data-end=\"1706\">\r\n<li data-start=\"1582\" data-end=\"1616\">\r\n<p data-start=\"1584\" data-end=\"1616\">\u201cI\u2019m not worthy of happiness.\u201d<\/p>\r\n<\/li>\r\n<li data-start=\"1617\" data-end=\"1660\">\r\n<p data-start=\"1619\" data-end=\"1660\">\u201cI\u2019ll never succeed at school or work.\u201d<\/p>\r\n<\/li>\r\n<li data-start=\"1661\" data-end=\"1706\">\r\n<p data-start=\"1663\" data-end=\"1706\">\u201cNo one wants to hear about my problems.\u201d<\/p>\r\n<\/li>\r\n<\/ul>\r\n<p data-start=\"1708\" data-end=\"1784\">Over time, repeated negative thoughts can reinforce a damaging self-image.<\/p>\r\n<h2 data-start=\"1791\" data-end=\"1822\">\u1ea2nh h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tr\u1ecdng th\u1ea5p<\/h2>\r\n<p data-start=\"1824\" data-end=\"1876\">Low self-esteem can affect multiple areas of life:<\/p>\r\n<ul data-start=\"1877\" data-end=\"2179\">\r\n<li data-start=\"1877\" data-end=\"1969\">\r\n<p data-start=\"1879\" data-end=\"1969\"><strong data-start=\"1879\" data-end=\"1897\">Mental health:<\/strong> Increased risk of depression, anxiety, or self-destructive behaviors.<\/p>\r\n<\/li>\r\n<li data-start=\"1970\" data-end=\"2064\">\r\n<p data-start=\"1972\" data-end=\"2064\"><strong data-start=\"1972\" data-end=\"1992\">Work and school:<\/strong> Self-doubt and fear of judgment reduce productivity and goal-setting.<\/p>\r\n<\/li>\r\n<li data-start=\"2065\" data-end=\"2179\">\r\n<p data-start=\"2067\" data-end=\"2179\"><strong data-start=\"2067\" data-end=\"2083\">Social life:<\/strong> Fear of rejection or feelings of unworthiness may cause isolation or unhealthy relationships.<\/p>\r\n<\/li>\r\n<\/ul>\r\n<h2 data-start=\"2186\" data-end=\"2219\">How low self-seteem edvelops<\/h2>\r\n<ul data-start=\"2221\" data-end=\"2524\">\r\n<li data-start=\"2221\" data-end=\"2340\">\r\n<p data-start=\"2223\" data-end=\"2340\"><strong data-start=\"2223\" data-end=\"2245\">Childhood Factors:<\/strong> Harsh criticism, bullying, or adverse experiences can lead to internalized negative beliefs.<\/p>\r\n<\/li>\r\n<li data-start=\"2341\" data-end=\"2445\">\r\n<p data-start=\"2343\" data-end=\"2445\"><strong data-start=\"2343\" data-end=\"2365\">Adulthood Factors:<\/strong> Life stressors such as breakups, job loss, or failures can lower self-esteem.<\/p>\r\n<\/li>\r\n<li data-start=\"2446\" data-end=\"2524\">\r\n<p data-start=\"2448\" data-end=\"2524\">These experiences contribute to negative self-talk and reduced confidence.<\/p>\r\n<\/li>\r\n<\/ul>\r\n<h2 data-start=\"2531\" data-end=\"2563\">Ways to improve self-esteem<\/h2>\r\n<ul data-start=\"2565\" data-end=\"3015\">\r\n<li data-start=\"2565\" data-end=\"2646\">\r\n<p data-start=\"2567\" data-end=\"2646\"><strong data-start=\"2567\" data-end=\"2596\">Recognize your strengths:<\/strong> Focus on what you do well, no matter how small.<\/p>\r\n<\/li>\r\n<li data-start=\"2647\" data-end=\"2726\">\r\n<p data-start=\"2649\" data-end=\"2726\"><strong data-start=\"2649\" data-end=\"2682\">Build positive relationships:<\/strong> Surround yourself with supportive people.<\/p>\r\n<\/li>\r\n<li data-start=\"2727\" data-end=\"2783\">\r\n<p data-start=\"2729\" data-end=\"2783\"><strong data-start=\"2729\" data-end=\"2753\">Be kind to yourself:<\/strong> Avoid harsh self-criticism.<\/p>\r\n<\/li>\r\n<li data-start=\"2784\" data-end=\"2861\">\r\n<p data-start=\"2786\" data-end=\"2861\"><strong data-start=\"2786\" data-end=\"2813\">Practice assertiveness:<\/strong> Learn to say \u201cno\u201d and set healthy boundaries.<\/p>\r\n<\/li>\r\n<li data-start=\"2862\" data-end=\"2934\">\r\n<p data-start=\"2864\" data-end=\"2934\"><strong data-start=\"2864\" data-end=\"2887\">Challenge yourself:<\/strong> Take small risks and celebrate achievements.<\/p>\r\n<\/li>\r\n<li data-start=\"2935\" data-end=\"3015\">\r\n<p data-start=\"2937\" data-end=\"3015\"><strong data-start=\"2937\" data-end=\"2958\">Give 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