{"id":4006,"date":"2021-05-25T13:53:35","date_gmt":"2021-05-25T06:53:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nhatamlyhoc.com\/?p=4006"},"modified":"2025-09-23T03:03:29","modified_gmt":"2025-09-23T03:03:29","slug":"whats-your-attachment-wound-and-yes-you-have-one","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/psychologistvietnam.com\/vi\/whats-your-attachment-wound-and-yes-you-have-one\/","title":{"rendered":"V\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng g\u1eafn b\u00f3: Khi tu\u1ed5i th\u01a1 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn"},"content":{"rendered":"

V\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng g\u1eafn b\u00f3 l\u00e0 g\u00ec?<\/b><\/h2>\n

T\u1eeb khi c\u00f2n l\u00e0 tr\u1ebb s\u01a1 sinh, tr\u1ebb em \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ed1t l\u00f5i l\u00e0 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c an to\u00e0n v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u0103m s\u00f3c. Khi nhu c\u1ea7u n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng, tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n phong c\u00e1ch g\u1eafn b\u00f3 an to\u00e0n. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u, tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng g\u1eafn b\u00f3, \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng s\u00e2u s\u1eafc \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1ch tr\u1ebb h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 khi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh.<\/span><\/p>\n

Khi nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ea3m x\u00fac kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng<\/b><\/h2>\n

N\u1ebfu cha m\u1eb9 b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n, c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch ng\u1eaft k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ph\u1ea3n b\u1ed9i b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u2013 tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch t\u1eeb b\u1ecf nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ea3m x\u00fac t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ho\u1eb7c ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u0103m s\u00f3c.<\/span><\/p>\n

V\u00ed d\u1ee5: m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00f3c khi b\u1ecb t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ecb cha m\u1eb9 x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5 ho\u1eb7c la m\u1eafng. Th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p tr\u1ebb ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn: \u201cC\u1ea3m x\u00fac n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng an to\u00e0n, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn.\u201d D\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n, tr\u1ebb k\u00ecm n\u00e9n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ch\u00e2n th\u1ef1c v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"200515<\/p>\n

D\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng g\u1eafn b\u00f3 \u1edf ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn<\/b><\/h2>\n

Khi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng g\u1eafn b\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n qua:<\/span><\/p>\n

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  • Kh\u00f3 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0 g\u1ea7n g\u0169i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/span><\/li>\n
  • C\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng an to\u00e0n trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 th\u00e2n m\u1eadt<\/span><\/li>\n
  • L\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i c\u00e1c m\u00f4 h\u00ecnh c\u0169 \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7, \u0111\u00f4i khi ph\u00e1 ho\u1ea1i c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

    Nh\u1eefng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng hay b\u1ecf b\u00ea r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng; \u0111\u00f4i khi ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 thi\u1ebfu s\u1ef1 h\u00f2a h\u1ee3p v\u1ec1 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac trong tu\u1ed5i th\u01a1.<\/span>.<\/b><\/p>\n

    Ni\u1ec1m tin c\u1ed1t l\u00f5i v\u00e0 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng l\u00e2u d\u00e0i<\/b><\/h2>\n

    V\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng g\u1eafn b\u00f3 h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh ni\u1ec1m tin c\u1ed1t l\u00f5i nh\u01b0:<\/span><\/p>\n

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    • \u201cT\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng \u1ed5n\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n
    • \u201cT\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n
    • \u201cC\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 s\u1ebd k\u1ebft th\u00fac ho\u1eb7c t\u00f4i s\u1ebd b\u1ecb b\u1ecf r\u01a1i\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

      Nh\u1eefng ni\u1ec1m tin n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u00ecnh c\u00e1ch ch\u00fang ta h\u00e0nh x\u1eed trong c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 t\u1ea1o ra c\u00e1c h\u00e0nh vi b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, d\u00f9 hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u00e3 an to\u00e0n.<\/span><\/p>\n

      T\u1ea1i sao nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng g\u1eafn b\u00f3 quan tr\u1ecdng?<\/b><\/h2>\n

      Hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng g\u1eafn b\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe tinh th\u1ea7n v\u00e0 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh. Khi nh\u1eadn ra c\u00e1c m\u00f4 h\u00ecnh c\u0169, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ea7n ch\u1eefa l\u00e0nh v\u00e0 t\u00e1i k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u1ea3m x\u00fac ch\u00e2n th\u1ef1c, thay v\u00ec ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng theo c\u01a1 ch\u1ebf b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 t\u1eeb tu\u1ed5i th\u01a1.<\/span><\/p>\n

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