{"id":21901,"date":"2025-11-23T08:42:16","date_gmt":"2025-11-23T08:42:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/psychologistvietnam.com\/?p=21901"},"modified":"2025-12-03T08:47:27","modified_gmt":"2025-12-03T08:47:27","slug":"nonsuicidal-self-injury-teens","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/psychologistvietnam.com\/en\/nonsuicidal-self-injury-teens\/","title":{"rendered":"Nonsuicidal Self-Injury in Teens: Causes, Risks, Treatment"},"content":{"rendered":"

Nonsuicidal Self-Injury (NSSI): The Silent Pain of Adolescents<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Humans are naturally driven to seek pleasure and avoid pain. Yet many adolescents intentionally harm their own bodies, not to die, but to cope with overwhelming emotions. This behavior is known as nonsuicidal self-injury (NSSI)<\/strong>, defined as deliberate, repetitive harm to one\u2019s body without the intention of suicide.<\/p>\n

Over the past two decades, NSSI has grown into a widespread yet silent crisis among teenagers, often hidden behind long sleeves and quiet suffering.<\/p>\n

Self-Harm Is Not New – It Has Long Existed in Human History<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Self-injury has been documented for thousands of years across different civilizations.<\/p>\n

Examples from history and culture<\/strong><\/h3>\n
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    In Oedipus Rex<\/strong> (5th century BCE), Sophocles described Oedipus injuring himself out of shame and despair.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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    Vincent van Gogh<\/strong> harmed himself multiple times and wrote, \u201cAs long as I keep my hand in the fire, let me see her.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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    Sylvia Plath<\/strong> vividly explored themes of self-harm in her poem The Other<\/em>.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

    These examples show that NSSI is not a modern trend, it is a human reaction to emotional pain that predates contemporary society.<\/p>\n

    Why Do Adolescents Intentionally Hurt Themselves?<\/strong><\/h2>\n

    NSSI typically begins around age 10, peaks between ages 13-22, and gradually declines after age 23.
    Research shows:<\/p>\n

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      19.5% of children and adolescents worldwide<\/strong> have self-harmed.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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      27.4% of middle school students in Mainland China<\/strong> report NSSI history.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

      These numbers highlight how common and urgent this issue truly is.<\/p>\n

      What teenagers say about why they self-harm<\/strong><\/h3>\n
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        \u201cIt hurts, but it feels good.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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        \u201cIt distracts me from sadness.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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        \u201cI want someone to notice and help me.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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        \u201cI need to punish myself.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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        \u201cIt calms emotions that are too strong.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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        \u201cIt shows what I can\u2019t say out loud.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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        \u201cAt least I can control something.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

        From these statements, we can categorize the reasons into two main groups.<\/p>\n

        Two Core Reasons Behind NSSI<\/strong><\/h2>\n

        1. Emotion Regulation<\/strong><\/h3>\n

        Many teens self-injure to relieve emotional overload, guilt, shame, sadness, anger, fear, and anxiety.
        Physical pain may temporarily:<\/p>\n

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          reduce emotional intensity<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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          bring a sense of \u201crelief\u201d<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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          provide a momentary feeling of control<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

          Some even describe it as an \u201caddiction\u201d to the sensation because the relief becomes reinforcing.<\/p>\n

          2. Communication & Relationship Signaling<\/strong><\/h3>\n

          Other teens seasking for help<\/p>\n

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            wanting attention or care<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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            signaling emotional suffering<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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            protesting stressful or unfair situations<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

            Unfortunately, NSSI sometimes \u201cworks\u201d teachers may give breaks, parents pay more attention, or responsibilities decrease \u2014 unintentionally reinforcing the behavior.<\/p>\n

            How Dangerous Is Nonsuicidal Self-Injury?<\/strong><\/h2>\n

            Although NSSI is not<\/strong> performed with the intent to die, it carries serious risks.<\/p>\n

            Physical risks<\/strong><\/h3>\n
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              infections and scarring<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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              accidental severe wounds<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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              disease transmission from shared tools<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

              Psychological risks<\/strong><\/h3>\n
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                shame, withdrawal, and social isolation<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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                increased suicidal thoughts<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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                dependency on self-harm as an emotional escape<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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                escalation to more frequent or severe behavior<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

                The emotional relief NSSI provides is temporary but the consequences can be long-lasting.<\/p>\n

                What Causes NSSI? A Complex Interaction of Factors<\/strong><\/h2>\n

                There is no single cause. NSSI usually results from a combination of biological, psychological, and environmental influences.<\/p>\n

                1. Biological factors<\/strong><\/h3>\n
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                  poor impulse control<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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                  altered pain perception<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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                  reward-system dysregulation<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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                  genetic predispositions to emotional sensitivity<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

                  2. Psychological and personality factors<\/strong><\/h3>\n
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                    unstable or impulsive personality traits<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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                    poor emotion-regulation skills<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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                    difficulty solving problems<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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                    inability to verbalize emotional pain
                    \u2192 For these teens, self-harm becomes the only \u201ctool\u201d they know<\/strong> to cope.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

                    3. Environmental and social factors<\/strong><\/h3>\n
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                      childhood trauma or abuse<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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                      emotional neglect<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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                      academic and performance pressure<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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                      parental absence or long-term separation<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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                      social media influence and contagion effects<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

                      Research consistently shows that emotional deprivation within the family<\/strong> is one of the strongest predictors of NSSI.<\/p>\n

                      How Is NSSI Treated? A Comprehensive, Multi-Level Approach<\/strong><\/h2>\n

                      Treating NSSI requires collaboration between families, mental health professionals, and support systems.<\/p>\n

                      1. Professional assessment<\/strong><\/h3>\n

                      A thorough evaluation identifies:<\/p>\n

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                        triggers<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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                        psychological conditions<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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                        frequency, tools, patterns<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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                        immediate safety concerns<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

                        2. Psychotherapy (Most effective treatments)<\/strong><\/h3>\n
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                          Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)<\/strong>\u00a0gold standard for NSSI<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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                          Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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                          Acceptance and emotion-regulation therapies<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

                          These therapies teach:<\/p>\n

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                            distress tolerance<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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                            emotional regulation<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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                            communication skills<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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                            replacing self-harm with healthier coping strategies<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

                            3. Medication<\/strong><\/h3>\n

                            There is no medication specifically for NSSI.
                            However, treating underlying conditions such as:<\/p>\n

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                              depression<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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                              bipolar disorder<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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                              severe anxiety
                              can significantly reduce self-harm urges.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

                              4. Social and family support<\/strong><\/h3>\n
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                                emotionally safe home environment<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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                                understanding, nonjudgmental caregivers<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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                                healthy peer networks<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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                                reducing stress and conflict<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

                                Supportive relationships are one of the strongest protective factors against NSSI.<\/p>\n

                                How Can Teens Help Themselves? Practical Skills<\/strong><\/h2>\n

                                A. Regulating emotions<\/strong><\/h3>\n
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                                  learn personal triggers<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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                                  identify early warning signs<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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                                  practice emotional labeling<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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                                  remove or discard self-harm tools<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

                                  B. Surviving emotional crises<\/strong><\/h3>\n
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                                    STOP and pause<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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                                    step back from the situation<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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                                    observe feelings without acting impulsively<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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                                    ask: \u201cWhat action can make this better, not worse?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

                                    C. Preventing relapse<\/strong><\/h3>\n
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                                      rapy<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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                                      proper wound care<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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                                      consistent the<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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                                      building a long-term safety plan<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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                                      strengthening emotional skills<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

                                      How to Prevent NSSI, A Community-Level Responsibility<\/strong><\/h2>\n

                                      NSSI prevention requires collaboration across:<\/p>\n

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                                        schools<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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                                        families<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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                                        healthcare systems<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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                                        communities<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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                                        media<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

                                        Effective prevention strategies include:<\/strong><\/h3>\n
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                                          mental health education and awareness<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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                                          early emotional screening<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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                                          teaching emotion-regulation skills<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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                                          building self-acceptance<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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                                          expanding access to counseling<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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                                          professional training for teachers and parents<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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                                          promoting healthy media guidelines<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

                                          Creating environments where adolescents feel seen, understood, and supported is the foundation of prevention.<\/p>\n

                                          Understanding NSSI Helps Us Protect the Mental Health of the Next Generation<\/strong><\/h2>\n

                                          Nonsuicidal self-injury is not attention-seeking behavior it is a distress signal<\/strong>.
                                          It reflects pain that words cannot express, and it calls for compassionate, informed intervention.<\/p>\n

                                          With the right support, adolescents can learn healthier ways to cope, regain control, and build emotional resilience.
                                          No young person should feel they must hurt themselves to be heard.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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